"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Make a dating timeline! :D

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Here's my girl timeline from when I started internet dating in late 2002 'till the present day:



(Sucks that you can't embed or attach images here.)

It was fun to think back and put it together. I included almost all the girls I screwed since '02 but left out a couple of rather forgettable ONSs. I didn't include any girls I didn't screw even if we had a couple of dates. You can see I had fun in late summer 2008 ;) .. actually that was a difficult time for me because one of my two LTRs dissolved and I was trying desperately to fill that emotional gap.

Timeline created at preceden.com, it's free. Try it, save it, look back on it in a decade.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How did you not confuse Laura and Lauren when you guys were dating LMFAO
 
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What's with that Paula chick? You guys dated for a while it seems
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah, dated Paula for years, with the exception of a large break a few years ago. And as far as calling the girls by the wrong names... I call all of them "baby." :D ;)

Don't think I'll ever be able to go back to dating one girl at a time. Feels bad, man.
 
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haha thats awesome. Iv never thought of doing a timeline for girls iv dated, ill have to check the website out.

So what about your dating history when you were early 20s? or even teens? the time line only goes back about seven years
 
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