"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Make a dating timeline! :D

Zarky

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Here's my girl timeline from when I started internet dating in late 2002 'till the present day:



(Sucks that you can't embed or attach images here.)

It was fun to think back and put it together. I included almost all the girls I screwed since '02 but left out a couple of rather forgettable ONSs. I didn't include any girls I didn't screw even if we had a couple of dates. You can see I had fun in late summer 2008 ;) .. actually that was a difficult time for me because one of my two LTRs dissolved and I was trying desperately to fill that emotional gap.

Timeline created at preceden.com, it's free. Try it, save it, look back on it in a decade.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How did you not confuse Laura and Lauren when you guys were dating LMFAO
 

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What's with that Paula chick? You guys dated for a while it seems
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Zarky

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Yeah, dated Paula for years, with the exception of a large break a few years ago. And as far as calling the girls by the wrong names... I call all of them "baby." :D ;)

Don't think I'll ever be able to go back to dating one girl at a time. Feels bad, man.
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

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haha thats awesome. Iv never thought of doing a timeline for girls iv dated, ill have to check the website out.

So what about your dating history when you were early 20s? or even teens? the time line only goes back about seven years
 
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