"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Make a dating timeline! :D

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Here's my girl timeline from when I started internet dating in late 2002 'till the present day:



(Sucks that you can't embed or attach images here.)

It was fun to think back and put it together. I included almost all the girls I screwed since '02 but left out a couple of rather forgettable ONSs. I didn't include any girls I didn't screw even if we had a couple of dates. You can see I had fun in late summer 2008 ;) .. actually that was a difficult time for me because one of my two LTRs dissolved and I was trying desperately to fill that emotional gap.

Timeline created at preceden.com, it's free. Try it, save it, look back on it in a decade.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How did you not confuse Laura and Lauren when you guys were dating LMFAO
 
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What's with that Paula chick? You guys dated for a while it seems
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah, dated Paula for years, with the exception of a large break a few years ago. And as far as calling the girls by the wrong names... I call all of them "baby." :D ;)

Don't think I'll ever be able to go back to dating one girl at a time. Feels bad, man.
 
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haha thats awesome. Iv never thought of doing a timeline for girls iv dated, ill have to check the website out.

So what about your dating history when you were early 20s? or even teens? the time line only goes back about seven years
 
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