"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Make a dating timeline! :D

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Here's my girl timeline from when I started internet dating in late 2002 'till the present day:



(Sucks that you can't embed or attach images here.)

It was fun to think back and put it together. I included almost all the girls I screwed since '02 but left out a couple of rather forgettable ONSs. I didn't include any girls I didn't screw even if we had a couple of dates. You can see I had fun in late summer 2008 ;) .. actually that was a difficult time for me because one of my two LTRs dissolved and I was trying desperately to fill that emotional gap.

Timeline created at preceden.com, it's free. Try it, save it, look back on it in a decade.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How did you not confuse Laura and Lauren when you guys were dating LMFAO
 
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What's with that Paula chick? You guys dated for a while it seems
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah, dated Paula for years, with the exception of a large break a few years ago. And as far as calling the girls by the wrong names... I call all of them "baby." :D ;)

Don't think I'll ever be able to go back to dating one girl at a time. Feels bad, man.
 
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haha thats awesome. Iv never thought of doing a timeline for girls iv dated, ill have to check the website out.

So what about your dating history when you were early 20s? or even teens? the time line only goes back about seven years
 
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