“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Major orgasm problem

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Hm.

Bald at 40 and I've slept with a hottie every night

OR

Bald at 60 and I've slept with a hottie once a week.....


tempting.......but i'll go bald at 40.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Don't listen to everything you read
 

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www.herballove.com sells actionloves products among others... take a look at that site. it´s really good, and with patience I recovered from being basically impotent from masturbating too much from a young age..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I've recently overcome this same problem. In fact, I can never get off first few times I'm with a new woman and I discovered the problem was all about my comfort levels. Since getting more comfortable with my girlfriend, I've been getting off 90% of the time we have sex.

However, last night I stayed at her house with her parents in the next room. When we had sex the bed was banging and she was making a lot of noise too. I kept worrying that her parents could hear us and I just couldn't get off at all. Then this morning, when her parents left, we went at it again, and I got off within 20 minutes.

If you can cvm by masturbating, there's nothing medically wrong with you. Mental processes play a big role in orgasms for men and women, and if you're not on form mentally or distracted, it could affect your performance.

A guy who can go for hours and give a girl multiple orgasms is something a lot of women would kill for. And once you reframe your "problem" as a gift, you should find it gets a lot easier to get off during sex.
 

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Yeah I remember when "it" happend to me, I panicked and it made things worse. I believe it is all mental, once you conquer the mental part, the physical part will be "healed".

If you do have these problems...

Performance anxiety
Masturbating too much
Watching too much porn

RELAX, all I can say. Course I've been on my own journey and still am, so I am very secure with my self and performance in bed. Just relax, by all means find something safe to calm the nerves, talk to the girl, talk to yourself, or just really chill.


Try and masturbate less and less to the point you can control yourself. Build a relationship with your demons; you'll become way way stronger.

If you do masturbate, use some lubricant and masturbate the correct way. In essence, you want to climax the way a ***** would do for you--more about massaging the head and surface of your ****, not the internal parts(only the hand can do that).

For me, it was also PORN. Porn is awesome, really gets one turned on easily. Porn is also a double edged-sword, it messed me up in the head when it came to sex. There wasn't any "magic". Real life sex is not like what you see in porn, maybe just a tad like 70's porn lol. Then again, I haven't hooked up with a kinky and open girl(I'm trying really hard to though). That's what I want, and I'm trying to hit it.
 
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