"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mtlwlu

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Hey guys

Ill get straight to the point, this girl i hooked up with on a few occasions, decided i was too ****y and thus placed me in the friend zone. We met at the bar again with a mutual group of friends. Anyways she ignored me for the majority of the night. Other than a few bumps and sly comments. Anyways as I was driving home, I got a text from her saying "ya good night ego, ps I knwo youre still into me ;)" how should I respond?

thanks in advanced fellow DJs
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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connor32

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the best response is no response. if you feel you have to respond say "not as much as your still into me. lol."
there's a fine line between confident and ****y.
 
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Prodigy746

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If i did reply i would reply w "Who is this???" and if she was like you know who it is bla blah blah its name. Than i would be like "oh i didnt know who you are cuse i deleted your number".

I would probobly not say anthing though...
 
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mtlwlu said:
Hey guys

Ill get straight to the point, this girl i hooked up with on a few occasions, decided i was too ****y and thus placed me in the friend zone.
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Weird combination. I think wasn't something else or something more than
what you think.(or aware of)

We met at the bar again with a mutual group of friends. Anyways she ignored me for the majority of the night. Other than a few bumps and sly comments. Anyways as I was driving home, I got a text from her saying "ya good night ego, ps I knwo youre still into me ;)" how should I respond?
thanks in advanced fellow DJs
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She somehow wants to hook up.
The best thing to do(if you are into her) continue this back and forth and see what happens...and in the mean time get to know other girls.
 
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toddC

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i mean shes def still into you or else you wouldn't have gotten that text..

i'd go 1 of 2 routes 1 being sending back the not as much as your into me.

or just ignore her and by the next time you see her she'll pounce
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SinJester

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She's still interested. You got in wrong somewhere. You don't get put in the LJBF zone for being too ****y.
 
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connor32 said:
the best response is no response. if you feel you have to respond say "not as much as your still into me. lol."
there's a fine line between confident and ****y.
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Thats something i would say lol. That would of been an excellent response. throw it back in her face by being playful.
 
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