"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Major help on this!

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mtlwlu

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Hey guys

Ill get straight to the point, this girl i hooked up with on a few occasions, decided i was too ****y and thus placed me in the friend zone. We met at the bar again with a mutual group of friends. Anyways she ignored me for the majority of the night. Other than a few bumps and sly comments. Anyways as I was driving home, I got a text from her saying "ya good night ego, ps I knwo youre still into me ;)" how should I respond?

thanks in advanced fellow DJs
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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the best response is no response. if you feel you have to respond say "not as much as your still into me. lol."
there's a fine line between confident and ****y.
 
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Prodigy746

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If i did reply i would reply w "Who is this???" and if she was like you know who it is bla blah blah its name. Than i would be like "oh i didnt know who you are cuse i deleted your number".

I would probobly not say anthing though...
 
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mtlwlu said:
Hey guys

Ill get straight to the point, this girl i hooked up with on a few occasions, decided i was too ****y and thus placed me in the friend zone.
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Weird combination. I think wasn't something else or something more than
what you think.(or aware of)

We met at the bar again with a mutual group of friends. Anyways she ignored me for the majority of the night. Other than a few bumps and sly comments. Anyways as I was driving home, I got a text from her saying "ya good night ego, ps I knwo youre still into me ;)" how should I respond?
thanks in advanced fellow DJs
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She somehow wants to hook up.
The best thing to do(if you are into her) continue this back and forth and see what happens...and in the mean time get to know other girls.
 
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toddC

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i mean shes def still into you or else you wouldn't have gotten that text..

i'd go 1 of 2 routes 1 being sending back the not as much as your into me.

or just ignore her and by the next time you see her she'll pounce
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's still interested. You got in wrong somewhere. You don't get put in the LJBF zone for being too ****y.
 
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connor32 said:
the best response is no response. if you feel you have to respond say "not as much as your still into me. lol."
there's a fine line between confident and ****y.
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Thats something i would say lol. That would of been an excellent response. throw it back in her face by being playful.
 
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