"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mtlwlu

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Hey guys

Ill get straight to the point, this girl i hooked up with on a few occasions, decided i was too ****y and thus placed me in the friend zone. We met at the bar again with a mutual group of friends. Anyways she ignored me for the majority of the night. Other than a few bumps and sly comments. Anyways as I was driving home, I got a text from her saying "ya good night ego, ps I knwo youre still into me ;)" how should I respond?

thanks in advanced fellow DJs
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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the best response is no response. if you feel you have to respond say "not as much as your still into me. lol."
there's a fine line between confident and ****y.
 
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Prodigy746

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If i did reply i would reply w "Who is this???" and if she was like you know who it is bla blah blah its name. Than i would be like "oh i didnt know who you are cuse i deleted your number".

I would probobly not say anthing though...
 
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mtlwlu said:
Hey guys

Ill get straight to the point, this girl i hooked up with on a few occasions, decided i was too ****y and thus placed me in the friend zone.
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Weird combination. I think wasn't something else or something more than
what you think.(or aware of)

We met at the bar again with a mutual group of friends. Anyways she ignored me for the majority of the night. Other than a few bumps and sly comments. Anyways as I was driving home, I got a text from her saying "ya good night ego, ps I knwo youre still into me ;)" how should I respond?
thanks in advanced fellow DJs
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She somehow wants to hook up.
The best thing to do(if you are into her) continue this back and forth and see what happens...and in the mean time get to know other girls.
 
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toddC

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i mean shes def still into you or else you wouldn't have gotten that text..

i'd go 1 of 2 routes 1 being sending back the not as much as your into me.

or just ignore her and by the next time you see her she'll pounce
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She's still interested. You got in wrong somewhere. You don't get put in the LJBF zone for being too ****y.
 
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connor32 said:
the best response is no response. if you feel you have to respond say "not as much as your still into me. lol."
there's a fine line between confident and ****y.
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Thats something i would say lol. That would of been an excellent response. throw it back in her face by being playful.
 
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