"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ive been chatting with this girl on myspace.

we had a great long conversation on aim.
i was sort of chatting in chatroom, watching a movie, and at the same with private chat with her.

few days past. saw her online but did not say hi or anything.

my question is maintenance. i think her interest level is descent. but i dont want to smother her with by contacting her too many times, but at the same time, i dont want to avoid her so that she forgets about me or figure that im not interested.

what advice do you guys have on this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yea i know what you mean, i do that also. its just that im bored right now and don't have anything else to do.

i think i know what to do. but i was just curious how you guys would approach this scenerio. maybe its out of boredom, but yea.

anybody, an expert at internet dating? i'd like to know how you would usually approach these girls (ego aside), that would be really great advice, thanks.

internet dating is sooo impersonal, lol.
 
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