"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ive been chatting with this girl on myspace.

we had a great long conversation on aim.
i was sort of chatting in chatroom, watching a movie, and at the same with private chat with her.

few days past. saw her online but did not say hi or anything.

my question is maintenance. i think her interest level is descent. but i dont want to smother her with by contacting her too many times, but at the same time, i dont want to avoid her so that she forgets about me or figure that im not interested.

what advice do you guys have on this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yea i know what you mean, i do that also. its just that im bored right now and don't have anything else to do.

i think i know what to do. but i was just curious how you guys would approach this scenerio. maybe its out of boredom, but yea.

anybody, an expert at internet dating? i'd like to know how you would usually approach these girls (ego aside), that would be really great advice, thanks.

internet dating is sooo impersonal, lol.
 
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