"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ive been chatting with this girl on myspace.

we had a great long conversation on aim.
i was sort of chatting in chatroom, watching a movie, and at the same with private chat with her.

few days past. saw her online but did not say hi or anything.

my question is maintenance. i think her interest level is descent. but i dont want to smother her with by contacting her too many times, but at the same time, i dont want to avoid her so that she forgets about me or figure that im not interested.

what advice do you guys have on this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yea i know what you mean, i do that also. its just that im bored right now and don't have anything else to do.

i think i know what to do. but i was just curious how you guys would approach this scenerio. maybe its out of boredom, but yea.

anybody, an expert at internet dating? i'd like to know how you would usually approach these girls (ego aside), that would be really great advice, thanks.

internet dating is sooo impersonal, lol.
 
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