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Maintaining mystery

Redwolf

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What are some good methods to maintain mystery when dealing with a new dating prospect?
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

Doctor Europeo

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No over texting or over sharing between dates (or ever).

Date her only once a week, unless she's basically begging to be f0cked.
 

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Don't - over text, share your feelings, tell her what you're doing everyday, qualify yourself, or compliment her.

Do - text sporadically, keep her guessing, live your life, qualify her, date other women
 

anonymous12345

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Good question, OP. The thing is, if you're insecure, you will over qualify yourself, over share, etc. I've had this problem, although it things varies depending on context. Changing "external" behaviour like suggested in above posts can change your internals, yes.

It's also about abundance mentality. I had a conversation with a girl on a train yesterday, and I took a break and stared out the window, and she reciprocated/took initiative. It's the same thing as with to maintain mystery, to be "rich" to the degree of being able to always let go. I think one should qualify oneself as little as is needed, she should drive it as much as possible. I got a way to go here, still.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Dust 2 Dust

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No calls or texts on Friday/Saturday nights if you don't have a date lined up with her. Weekends are your prime time and you're not giving away free attention.
 
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