"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maintaining mystery

Redwolf

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What are some good methods to maintain mystery when dealing with a new dating prospect?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Doctor Europeo

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No over texting or over sharing between dates (or ever).

Date her only once a week, unless she's basically begging to be f0cked.
 

Toddz

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Don't - over text, share your feelings, tell her what you're doing everyday, qualify yourself, or compliment her.

Do - text sporadically, keep her guessing, live your life, qualify her, date other women
 

anonymous12345

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Good question, OP. The thing is, if you're insecure, you will over qualify yourself, over share, etc. I've had this problem, although it things varies depending on context. Changing "external" behaviour like suggested in above posts can change your internals, yes.

It's also about abundance mentality. I had a conversation with a girl on a train yesterday, and I took a break and stared out the window, and she reciprocated/took initiative. It's the same thing as with to maintain mystery, to be "rich" to the degree of being able to always let go. I think one should qualify oneself as little as is needed, she should drive it as much as possible. I got a way to go here, still.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dust 2 Dust

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No calls or texts on Friday/Saturday nights if you don't have a date lined up with her. Weekends are your prime time and you're not giving away free attention.
 
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