I just started a new job and its a matter of time that some of the ladies at work are gonna ask about me, but ive have ran into an occurring theme regarding mystery on this site. How do i respond to some of these questions without giving away too much info, but at the same time not sounding bland and boring?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Maintaining Mystery???
- Thread starter CJE666
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MisterSisterFister
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Do not even bother gaming girls you work with. For one you never sh** where you eat. For 2, too many ways for it to back fire and make work become uncomfortable. Just focus on being calm collected and very cool + fun and you'll be fine.
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Maintaining mystery. Let her do the talking. Only bang the ones you work with if they initiate first. That's my rule.
Purefilth
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Just smile laugh off questions you don't wanna answer about your personal life.
Something like '' nosy one aren't we? " usually does the trick.
Something like '' nosy one aren't we? " usually does the trick.
Dude, the workplace is not the same.
Between all the job losses, people are so uptight these days. Women can secretly write you up and then if you hit on her she can get you fired. My boss told me he had to fire someone because of that. I dated a girl from work a few years ago and another guy got fired for punching me over it (and he went and reported me but then they fired him instead).
And never email girls from work. They will forward it to their supervisor and make a big deal about it, especially married, unattractive girls, or the catty receptionist who knows she makes the least in the company and is seething.
KISS OF DEATH: Because so much information is now available online, if you ever forward a link to someone at work to support your claim, especially a scientific link in a scientific job, and ESPECIALLY one that YOU wrote as a professional in that area, it's practically grounds for dismissal these days. People have dynamically become more ignorant to maintain their pre-internet level of stupidity. Goddamn anyone who was ever offended by a hyperlink, a quote, or an email rant.
Just smile and politely answer questions and walk away. Tell them you have a girlfriend.
Between all the job losses, people are so uptight these days. Women can secretly write you up and then if you hit on her she can get you fired. My boss told me he had to fire someone because of that. I dated a girl from work a few years ago and another guy got fired for punching me over it (and he went and reported me but then they fired him instead).
And never email girls from work. They will forward it to their supervisor and make a big deal about it, especially married, unattractive girls, or the catty receptionist who knows she makes the least in the company and is seething.
KISS OF DEATH: Because so much information is now available online, if you ever forward a link to someone at work to support your claim, especially a scientific link in a scientific job, and ESPECIALLY one that YOU wrote as a professional in that area, it's practically grounds for dismissal these days. People have dynamically become more ignorant to maintain their pre-internet level of stupidity. Goddamn anyone who was ever offended by a hyperlink, a quote, or an email rant.
Just smile and politely answer questions and walk away. Tell them you have a girlfriend.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I work in the very back of the building in a warehouse bagging ****, while all of the secretarys are at the front busy on their computers. The only time i see any women is when i am arriving, having lunch, and leaving the workplace. I never have to physically work with any of them.bigneil said:
Secret write ups sounds absolutely ludicrous, and who the hell emails girls these days? :crackup:
Although the gossip and the extremely unlikely event of losing my job is a possibility, I am willing to take that chance under the above circumstances. Ive already seen one HB7 and a couple HB9's give off various signs of body language (playing with jewellery, longer than normal eye contact, preening ect.) so im gonna c how this works out