Bokanovsky
Master Don Juan
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I don't want to sound like some kind of a new age motivational speaker, but I think that this is a topic that rarely gets discussed on sosuave. It's very easy to become cynical, if not downright bitter, after taking the red pill. And I realize that it may sound a little ironic coming from me, as I probably come across as a pretty cynical kind of guy myself in many of my posts. What I've realized as I got older is that while a certain amount of natural skepticism is a good thing, you can't let it define you as a person. It's not good for your inner game (you lose motivation to interact with women) and it's not good for your outer game either (no one likes a guy who is always negative and critical of everything).
Ultimately, to be a true DJ, you need to be aware of what you're up against as a man living in the 21st century (i.e. female hypergamy, high divorce rates, unfair family law systems, etc.) but at the same time remain an optimist. Personally, I've often struggled to maintain the right balance between the two.
Ultimately, to be a true DJ, you need to be aware of what you're up against as a man living in the 21st century (i.e. female hypergamy, high divorce rates, unfair family law systems, etc.) but at the same time remain an optimist. Personally, I've often struggled to maintain the right balance between the two.
