"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Main plate going through emotional bs

youngprodigy

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My current main plate, former ex girlfriend is currently being spun along with 2 other hb8+. I text all 3 of them quite regularly cause in my day of age you have to frequently text girls above a certain category for them to stay interested and know that my "intentions" are good hearted.

So my former ex girlfriend got into contact with me to fix our differences. I demoted her from LTR material to main plate. So things are well and I'm trying to set up a date but the thing is her best friend passed away a couple days ago. So now this girl is constantly depressed and is flaking on dates. She replies to my texts but super dry and tells me how much she misses her.

I don't really deal with other people's problems cause I prefer dealing with my own on my own time. She's making it really difficult to shift the conversation and just makes the whole thing depressing.

Just wondering, how can i play my cards to get her out of this depressive mindset and continue off where we left off?

p.s. not tryna sound heartless
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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marmel75

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Try treating her like a human being? What a novel idea.
 
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