"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Main plate going through emotional bs

youngprodigy

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My current main plate, former ex girlfriend is currently being spun along with 2 other hb8+. I text all 3 of them quite regularly cause in my day of age you have to frequently text girls above a certain category for them to stay interested and know that my "intentions" are good hearted.

So my former ex girlfriend got into contact with me to fix our differences. I demoted her from LTR material to main plate. So things are well and I'm trying to set up a date but the thing is her best friend passed away a couple days ago. So now this girl is constantly depressed and is flaking on dates. She replies to my texts but super dry and tells me how much she misses her.

I don't really deal with other people's problems cause I prefer dealing with my own on my own time. She's making it really difficult to shift the conversation and just makes the whole thing depressing.

Just wondering, how can i play my cards to get her out of this depressive mindset and continue off where we left off?

p.s. not tryna sound heartless
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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marmel75

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Try treating her like a human being? What a novel idea.
 
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