"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have this small eBay operation, selling stuff.. I don't accept electronic payments, only check or money order. Buyers send them via US mail. Most of the time I get them, but sometimes I don't.

This happens I noticed with people who I find inept, via how they mark payments sent and all that small stuff.

How could mail could not arrive to me if he supposedly wrote correct address?


Whose problem is this? Mail man on my end?



This is the only time that mail does not arrive to me. I have no problems receiving letters from other people.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mail men are thieving bastards. Why don't you use PayPal? Lesser of several evils IMO.
 
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I can't use PayPal on eBay.. It requires to convert account to merchant type.. It also means I have to deal with credit card charge backs and pay extra on my transactions..


With check or money order I have control over buyer.. With PayPal he has control over me.. Easy to get screwed.


I can't just tell them I only accept direct transfers through PayPal, ebay policy violation.
 
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The buyer is lying. Give them 3 more days, then file an unpaid item dispute, and that will give them like 8 more days to supposedly send. If it still doesn't arrive, let them get their nicely earned strike, and neg feedback. If they get I believe THREE of these strikes, they are kicked off.
 
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Oh I'd love to leave negative feedback. Question is, if I do, they can do it too, right?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If you use Paypal you can set it to only ship to confirmed addresses. That means you are shipping to the same address as the credit card is registered to/mailed to.

I have only had one attempted chargeback in 4 years - and it was denied because it was mailed to a confirmed address.

As far as negatives go, I prefer to just file an NPB dispute against them after 7 days and get my FVF fees back. If they do not respond to your dispute throuh the dispute center and results in you getting your fees back (you close it after givingthem 7 more days from filing), then theycannot leave you feedback of any kind and receive a strike against thier accounts for not paying.

I have found leaving negs hurts the Seller more than Buyer.
 
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Also great about Paypal is it is directly linked to USPS, where the Customer's address info is already inserted, you get free delivery confirmation (1/2 off if first class). The label prints ourt and you just leave it for your mail carrier to pick up everyday and don't have to drive to the post office! (Of course if your carrier is a thief... !?!)
 
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I was feeling like maybe it was inappropriate to ask Zorro to take of his mask LOL
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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