Hey all, today I may have not gotten any numbers or anything, but I made a promise to say "Whats up" to every person(male and female) I came across, so that I would build more confidence around people I do not know and so I won't be afraid to do the cold approach. Today, I kept my promise and for the most part people were receptive. However, there were a few who weren't but I dont give a phukk bout those.. As for approaching women, how would most react if I approached them by just sayin "Whats up?"? Coming up with lines is not for me for it makes me look like im beating around the bush.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Made some progress today
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
belividere
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maybe you should go the bible and read about boot camps. They are basically a rigorous set of guidelines that are to be followed for overcoming fears and social phobia in an effort to be able to approach girls wherever and whenever. Seems like you are doing one right now anyways.
alphawolfx
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Good start. I'm proud. You'll find out soon that all this crap is easier than everyone makes it out to be.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
diablo
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Today, i did the same as yesterday, sayin "Whats up?" to everyone I passed by. However, it seemed like the guys said hi back but the girls would look away and keep running. I mean I was walking confidently with a smile on my face, yet they were scared when I said "Whats up?" to them. whats the best way for me to make sure they dont get scared?