Hey all, today I may have not gotten any numbers or anything, but I made a promise to say "Whats up" to every person(male and female) I came across, so that I would build more confidence around people I do not know and so I won't be afraid to do the cold approach. Today, I kept my promise and for the most part people were receptive. However, there were a few who weren't but I dont give a phukk bout those.. As for approaching women, how would most react if I approached them by just sayin "Whats up?"? Coming up with lines is not for me for it makes me look like im beating around the bush.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Made some progress today
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
belividere
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maybe you should go the bible and read about boot camps. They are basically a rigorous set of guidelines that are to be followed for overcoming fears and social phobia in an effort to be able to approach girls wherever and whenever. Seems like you are doing one right now anyways.
alphawolfx
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Good start. I'm proud. You'll find out soon that all this crap is easier than everyone makes it out to be.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
diablo
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Today, i did the same as yesterday, sayin "Whats up?" to everyone I passed by. However, it seemed like the guys said hi back but the girls would look away and keep running. I mean I was walking confidently with a smile on my face, yet they were scared when I said "Whats up?" to them. whats the best way for me to make sure they dont get scared?