Hey all, today I may have not gotten any numbers or anything, but I made a promise to say "Whats up" to every person(male and female) I came across, so that I would build more confidence around people I do not know and so I won't be afraid to do the cold approach. Today, I kept my promise and for the most part people were receptive. However, there were a few who weren't but I dont give a phukk bout those.. As for approaching women, how would most react if I approached them by just sayin "Whats up?"? Coming up with lines is not for me for it makes me look like im beating around the bush.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Made some progress today
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
belividere
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maybe you should go the bible and read about boot camps. They are basically a rigorous set of guidelines that are to be followed for overcoming fears and social phobia in an effort to be able to approach girls wherever and whenever. Seems like you are doing one right now anyways.
alphawolfx
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Good start. I'm proud. You'll find out soon that all this crap is easier than everyone makes it out to be.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
diablo
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Today, i did the same as yesterday, sayin "Whats up?" to everyone I passed by. However, it seemed like the guys said hi back but the girls would look away and keep running. I mean I was walking confidently with a smile on my face, yet they were scared when I said "Whats up?" to them. whats the best way for me to make sure they dont get scared?