Hey all, today I may have not gotten any numbers or anything, but I made a promise to say "Whats up" to every person(male and female) I came across, so that I would build more confidence around people I do not know and so I won't be afraid to do the cold approach. Today, I kept my promise and for the most part people were receptive. However, there were a few who weren't but I dont give a phukk bout those.. As for approaching women, how would most react if I approached them by just sayin "Whats up?"? Coming up with lines is not for me for it makes me look like im beating around the bush.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Made some progress today
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
belividere
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maybe you should go the bible and read about boot camps. They are basically a rigorous set of guidelines that are to be followed for overcoming fears and social phobia in an effort to be able to approach girls wherever and whenever. Seems like you are doing one right now anyways.
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Good start. I'm proud. You'll find out soon that all this crap is easier than everyone makes it out to be.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
diablo
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Today, i did the same as yesterday, sayin "Whats up?" to everyone I passed by. However, it seemed like the guys said hi back but the girls would look away and keep running. I mean I was walking confidently with a smile on my face, yet they were scared when I said "Whats up?" to them. whats the best way for me to make sure they dont get scared?