"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey guys, haven't check in in a long time.

Anyways, life has been crazy the last little bit. I ended up moving again and am trying out life in the big city. I made a career change and took a job in sales in at a new start up. Got a new to me motorcycle also and have been having a blast with that. Life gets crazy and I realized about 6 months ago that I truly wasn't happy with the way things were going. You only get one life after all.

It still amazes me when I go out how bad guys are with women. It only seems to be getting worse too. I was at a hibachi this past weekend and was next to a group of girls. 2-3 guys kept trying to hit on them and by the end of the night had paid for their meals, drinks, and got nothing in return.

If anyone has any tips on sales, I'd love to hear it. This is something new to me and while I'm doing OK with it, I know I can get better.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ebracer05 said:
Hey guys, haven't check in in a long time.

Anyways, life has been crazy the last little bit. I ended up moving again and am trying out life in the big city. I made a career change and took a job in sales in at a new start up. Got a new to me motorcycle also and have been having a blast with that. Life gets crazy and I realized about 6 months ago that I truly wasn't happy with the way things were going. You only get one life after all.

It still amazes me when I go out how bad guys are with women. It only seems to be getting worse too. I was at a hibachi this past weekend and was next to a group of girls. 2-3 guys kept trying to hit on them and by the end of the night had paid for their meals, drinks, and got nothing in return.

If anyone has any tips on sales, I'd love to hear it. This is something new to me and while I'm doing OK with it, I know I can get better.
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Oh, they are more terrible than ever now adays.
 
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Espi said:
Sales in my opinion is THE perfect job for any aspiring DJ.
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So what resources would you suggest to help me get better? I have pretty much no training in sales, other than the things I've learned about social dynamics from places like this.
 
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Listen, identify their problem, give them something that solves their problem...... There are other things, look at Zig Ziglar and other stuff similar
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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