"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ebracer05

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Hey guys, haven't check in in a long time.

Anyways, life has been crazy the last little bit. I ended up moving again and am trying out life in the big city. I made a career change and took a job in sales in at a new start up. Got a new to me motorcycle also and have been having a blast with that. Life gets crazy and I realized about 6 months ago that I truly wasn't happy with the way things were going. You only get one life after all.

It still amazes me when I go out how bad guys are with women. It only seems to be getting worse too. I was at a hibachi this past weekend and was next to a group of girls. 2-3 guys kept trying to hit on them and by the end of the night had paid for their meals, drinks, and got nothing in return.

If anyone has any tips on sales, I'd love to hear it. This is something new to me and while I'm doing OK with it, I know I can get better.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mrgoodstuff

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Hey guys, haven't check in in a long time.

Anyways, life has been crazy the last little bit. I ended up moving again and am trying out life in the big city. I made a career change and took a job in sales in at a new start up. Got a new to me motorcycle also and have been having a blast with that. Life gets crazy and I realized about 6 months ago that I truly wasn't happy with the way things were going. You only get one life after all.

It still amazes me when I go out how bad guys are with women. It only seems to be getting worse too. I was at a hibachi this past weekend and was next to a group of girls. 2-3 guys kept trying to hit on them and by the end of the night had paid for their meals, drinks, and got nothing in return.

If anyone has any tips on sales, I'd love to hear it. This is something new to me and while I'm doing OK with it, I know I can get better.
Oh, they are more terrible than ever now adays.
 

ebracer05

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Sales in my opinion is THE perfect job for any aspiring DJ.
So what resources would you suggest to help me get better? I have pretty much no training in sales, other than the things I've learned about social dynamics from places like this.
 

sodbuster

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Listen, identify their problem, give them something that solves their problem...... There are other things, look at Zig Ziglar and other stuff similar
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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