"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ebracer05

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Hey guys, haven't check in in a long time.

Anyways, life has been crazy the last little bit. I ended up moving again and am trying out life in the big city. I made a career change and took a job in sales in at a new start up. Got a new to me motorcycle also and have been having a blast with that. Life gets crazy and I realized about 6 months ago that I truly wasn't happy with the way things were going. You only get one life after all.

It still amazes me when I go out how bad guys are with women. It only seems to be getting worse too. I was at a hibachi this past weekend and was next to a group of girls. 2-3 guys kept trying to hit on them and by the end of the night had paid for their meals, drinks, and got nothing in return.

If anyone has any tips on sales, I'd love to hear it. This is something new to me and while I'm doing OK with it, I know I can get better.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey guys, haven't check in in a long time.

Anyways, life has been crazy the last little bit. I ended up moving again and am trying out life in the big city. I made a career change and took a job in sales in at a new start up. Got a new to me motorcycle also and have been having a blast with that. Life gets crazy and I realized about 6 months ago that I truly wasn't happy with the way things were going. You only get one life after all.

It still amazes me when I go out how bad guys are with women. It only seems to be getting worse too. I was at a hibachi this past weekend and was next to a group of girls. 2-3 guys kept trying to hit on them and by the end of the night had paid for their meals, drinks, and got nothing in return.

If anyone has any tips on sales, I'd love to hear it. This is something new to me and while I'm doing OK with it, I know I can get better.
Oh, they are more terrible than ever now adays.
 

ebracer05

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Sales in my opinion is THE perfect job for any aspiring DJ.
So what resources would you suggest to help me get better? I have pretty much no training in sales, other than the things I've learned about social dynamics from places like this.
 

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Listen, identify their problem, give them something that solves their problem...... There are other things, look at Zig Ziglar and other stuff similar
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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