"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Made out, now she's going away for 3 weeks

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Leporello

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Met a girl at a party, we meet a week later at a bar and have a good time and make out.

Now, it's Xmas break and she's leaving for almost three weeks. How do I play the time in between?

I could go complete NC and just message her when she gets back, but I was thinking I'd send her a text every week her so to keep her IL up. Thoughts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Go no contact and wait til she gets back. It's the holidays, so she should understand that everyone gets busy around this time. Plus, it's a good way to gauge her interest - if SHE'S the one hitting YOU up despite the focus being on family and close friends she already has, it means she definitely has interest. And if/when she does hit you up, make the communication short but let her know you appreciate her thinking about you enough to hit you up.

Aside from that, though, don't worry too much about it.
 
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Probably best. I may shoot her a quick 'Merry Xmas' on the day but I won't say anything that would need a reply.
 
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