"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Made out, now she's going away for 3 weeks

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Met a girl at a party, we meet a week later at a bar and have a good time and make out.

Now, it's Xmas break and she's leaving for almost three weeks. How do I play the time in between?

I could go complete NC and just message her when she gets back, but I was thinking I'd send her a text every week her so to keep her IL up. Thoughts?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Go no contact and wait til she gets back. It's the holidays, so she should understand that everyone gets busy around this time. Plus, it's a good way to gauge her interest - if SHE'S the one hitting YOU up despite the focus being on family and close friends she already has, it means she definitely has interest. And if/when she does hit you up, make the communication short but let her know you appreciate her thinking about you enough to hit you up.

Aside from that, though, don't worry too much about it.
 
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Probably best. I may shoot her a quick 'Merry Xmas' on the day but I won't say anything that would need a reply.
 
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