Made out, now she's going away for 3 weeks

[Leporello]

Met a girl at a party, we meet a week later at a bar and have a good time and make out.

Now, it's Xmas break and she's leaving for almost three weeks. How do I play the time in between?

I could go complete NC and just message her when she gets back, but I was thinking I'd send her a text every week her so to keep her IL up. Thoughts?

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Go no contact and wait til she gets back. It's the holidays, so she should understand that everyone gets busy around this time. Plus, it's a good way to gauge her interest - if SHE'S the one hitting YOU up despite the focus being on family and close friends she already has, it means she definitely has interest. And if/when she does hit you up, make the communication short but let her know you appreciate her thinking about you enough to hit you up.

Aside from that, though, don't worry too much about it.

 

[Leporello]

Probably best. I may shoot her a quick 'Merry Xmas' on the day but I won't say anything that would need a reply.