"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Made out, now she's going away for 3 weeks

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Met a girl at a party, we meet a week later at a bar and have a good time and make out.

Now, it's Xmas break and she's leaving for almost three weeks. How do I play the time in between?

I could go complete NC and just message her when she gets back, but I was thinking I'd send her a text every week her so to keep her IL up. Thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Go no contact and wait til she gets back. It's the holidays, so she should understand that everyone gets busy around this time. Plus, it's a good way to gauge her interest - if SHE'S the one hitting YOU up despite the focus being on family and close friends she already has, it means she definitely has interest. And if/when she does hit you up, make the communication short but let her know you appreciate her thinking about you enough to hit you up.

Aside from that, though, don't worry too much about it.
 
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Probably best. I may shoot her a quick 'Merry Xmas' on the day but I won't say anything that would need a reply.
 
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