"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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made out, got number, same routine?

DJmonster

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This girl had been giving me heavy eye contact at my house party. I kept wanting to talk to her, but kept getting distracted. Finally, I saw her standing on a table with another guy looking uncomfortable, so I just grabbed her and carried her into my room. We made out, then I had to piss really bad, so I asked her to wait there, I'd be right back. She said she shouldn't and couldn't believe she was doing this (didn't even really know me, was kind of drunk I think), so I got her number and she joined her group of friends again.

Should I call her up and take her to dinner? Or since we've already gotten a little physical, should I just ask her to hang out and maybe do something fun, then go to my place or hers?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DrSoSuave

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You already have zero chance with her.

But you can always try, just remember what I just said.
 

Alen-Delon

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dont screw it up. you got her, dont be to pusshy, take it kind slow maybe a dinner and a movie back at your place should do it. have a bottle of something soft back at your crib no budlight and shyt like that maybe wine would do the trick. good luck
 
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