"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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made out, got number, same routine?

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This girl had been giving me heavy eye contact at my house party. I kept wanting to talk to her, but kept getting distracted. Finally, I saw her standing on a table with another guy looking uncomfortable, so I just grabbed her and carried her into my room. We made out, then I had to piss really bad, so I asked her to wait there, I'd be right back. She said she shouldn't and couldn't believe she was doing this (didn't even really know me, was kind of drunk I think), so I got her number and she joined her group of friends again.

Should I call her up and take her to dinner? Or since we've already gotten a little physical, should I just ask her to hang out and maybe do something fun, then go to my place or hers?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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You already have zero chance with her.

But you can always try, just remember what I just said.
 
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dont screw it up. you got her, dont be to pusshy, take it kind slow maybe a dinner and a movie back at your place should do it. have a bottle of something soft back at your crib no budlight and shyt like that maybe wine would do the trick. good luck
 
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