"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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made out, got number, same routine?

DJmonster

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This girl had been giving me heavy eye contact at my house party. I kept wanting to talk to her, but kept getting distracted. Finally, I saw her standing on a table with another guy looking uncomfortable, so I just grabbed her and carried her into my room. We made out, then I had to piss really bad, so I asked her to wait there, I'd be right back. She said she shouldn't and couldn't believe she was doing this (didn't even really know me, was kind of drunk I think), so I got her number and she joined her group of friends again.

Should I call her up and take her to dinner? Or since we've already gotten a little physical, should I just ask her to hang out and maybe do something fun, then go to my place or hers?
 

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DrSoSuave

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You already have zero chance with her.

But you can always try, just remember what I just said.
 

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dont screw it up. you got her, dont be to pusshy, take it kind slow maybe a dinner and a movie back at your place should do it. have a bottle of something soft back at your crib no budlight and shyt like that maybe wine would do the trick. good luck
 
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