"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Made me laugh again.. These women

captn caveman

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Girl: "I do not like men who do the move.. I like the chase"

m: "Well, do you make a move than, other than just chasing like Tom and jerry?"

girl: "No"

m: "Lets dance"

she follows to a slow and close dance.

but nevertheless, could not f close her that nite..

still makes me smile when I think about these crazy creatures :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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heh, I had a good looking friend once that used to walk in a club, and as he was walking past one of the best looking women in the club he would not make eye contact until he was just about past her. Then he would stop, turn his head and look directly at her. By this time she was looking at him to see what's up. He would sneer and say, "What are you looking at? You can't have me". Then quickly turn and continue on his way. Usually the girl would crack up laughing but he would manage to keep a straight face throughout the ordeal.

After dancing with a few other girls, he would eventually bump into this girl again, or she would approach him, and they'd share a laugh and the convo would be on.

The games played by both genders is entertaining when ya think about it.
 

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Originally posted by captn caveman
Girl: "I do not like men who do the move.. I like the chase"

m: "Well, do you make a move than, other than just chasing like Tom and jerry?"

girl: "No"

m: "Lets dance"

she follows to a slow and close dance.

but nevertheless, could not f close her that nite..

still makes me smile when I think about these crazy creatures :)
What exactly is "the move"? I'm lost. :confused:
 

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Re: Re: Made me laugh again.. These women

Originally posted by squirrels
What exactly is "the move"? I'm lost. :confused:
the move = a move, as in making a move on her
 
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