"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Made her speechless

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Ha, so this gal im really trying to get over (bad oneitis), was chatting to me today, i know she has a bf, which she personally hasnt told me about (any idea why? shes never mentioned this guy to me at all, but i KNOW she has a bf) and she was talking about this gal she thinks i like who has a bf (another gal not her)

i said basicaly im taking a step back with her, weve been texting alot and i said i hadnt text her back from the other day because she said she hates it when guys she likes dont text her back, so i told this gal i thought i would see if not texting her back would work and make her think about me more, she replied "but why? what boy would think like that? you think too deeply"

so i said "a boy who isnt gonna take **** from a gal whose just out for attention, a boy who wants to know whether or not she is truly intrested in him, a boy who listens to what a gal says and acts accordingly, and a boy who knows from past expierences that what a gal wants isnt exactly what she needs"

she said "right, im a bit speechless actually, you certainly have learnt from your past, ull go far like that"

i thought it was pretty funny actually, shocked her a lil bit, she used me for attention when i was into her, but im changing and i think this convo i had with her basically made her think, that im not taking **** from anyone anymore!

and its certainly helped me get over her a lil bit more!

just needed to tell someone
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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arutha

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Haha good work.

Its fun sometimes spitting some of the stuff you read to them. Like David D in his book mentioned talking to a girl about how males and females communicate on different 'levels', I did and she was completely speachless. Had this amazed look on her face then finally said oh my god you get it, you're so perceptive.

I'm like yeah that right, and now I'm off to talk to a girl who'll do more than look at me like a cow looks at an oncoming train.:crackup:
 

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Originally posted by arutha
Haha good work.

I'm like yeah that right, and now I'm off to talk to a girl who'll do more than look at me like a cow looks at an oncoming train.:crackup:
THats funny, I KNOW that look, Its funny that you've perfectly described that dumbfounded look that a girl gets at those times....I never thought of it that way... :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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