"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Made her speechless

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Ha, so this gal im really trying to get over (bad oneitis), was chatting to me today, i know she has a bf, which she personally hasnt told me about (any idea why? shes never mentioned this guy to me at all, but i KNOW she has a bf) and she was talking about this gal she thinks i like who has a bf (another gal not her)

i said basicaly im taking a step back with her, weve been texting alot and i said i hadnt text her back from the other day because she said she hates it when guys she likes dont text her back, so i told this gal i thought i would see if not texting her back would work and make her think about me more, she replied "but why? what boy would think like that? you think too deeply"

so i said "a boy who isnt gonna take **** from a gal whose just out for attention, a boy who wants to know whether or not she is truly intrested in him, a boy who listens to what a gal says and acts accordingly, and a boy who knows from past expierences that what a gal wants isnt exactly what she needs"

she said "right, im a bit speechless actually, you certainly have learnt from your past, ull go far like that"

i thought it was pretty funny actually, shocked her a lil bit, she used me for attention when i was into her, but im changing and i think this convo i had with her basically made her think, that im not taking **** from anyone anymore!

and its certainly helped me get over her a lil bit more!

just needed to tell someone
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Haha good work.

Its fun sometimes spitting some of the stuff you read to them. Like David D in his book mentioned talking to a girl about how males and females communicate on different 'levels', I did and she was completely speachless. Had this amazed look on her face then finally said oh my god you get it, you're so perceptive.

I'm like yeah that right, and now I'm off to talk to a girl who'll do more than look at me like a cow looks at an oncoming train.:crackup:
 

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Originally posted by arutha
Haha good work.

I'm like yeah that right, and now I'm off to talk to a girl who'll do more than look at me like a cow looks at an oncoming train.:crackup:
THats funny, I KNOW that look, Its funny that you've perfectly described that dumbfounded look that a girl gets at those times....I never thought of it that way... :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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