Made a move and it didn't work out with my collegue - is this a rejection?

[Glassguy]

Classguy, you sound fvcking stupid right now. I’m not a idiot I ****ed over 200 women in my life had so many flings and relations. You think I would imagine her flirting with me? Nah... your comment is crap

Whatever you say bro

 

[Glassguy]

You are trying to bang a chick that works for you. Who has a bf. Who has never went out on a "date" with you. This has been going on for weeks because you keep posting about it.

Any my comment is crap? I am the one that sounds "fvcking stupid right now"? Yes I think you have this scenario in your head that is not reality.

A woman flirts with me that I am attracted to, I close the deal. Or she isnt really flirting with me.

Which is it? Is he interested and you cant close the deal or is she not really interested?

Its one or the other.

 

[Glassguy]

Quick background; her ex cheated on her right after I hired her and we started to flirt A LOT the last couple months. I was only focussing on work work work the last 2 years with no plates, because I was working my a$$ off and this chick showed loads of IoI's since her ex cheated on her. I made 2 threads about this.

Seriously...this has went on for MONTHS. You said it.

She also started to flirt like usual so I went for the kill.

I asked her to eat sushi after work saturday evening, so tonight. She said ''yes sure!''.

So then I figured I would only make a cexual move if there were 100% green lights

Why do you need a green light if she has been flirting with you for MONTHS?

if she really wanted me to lead and maybe take her home she would not schedule a party with her friends right?

If she wanted to fvck YOU, she would have, instead of going out with her friends.

Not really a chance for me to go together and ask her on the way to go to my crib instead of eating it at my shop.

That was YOUR fault. You allowed the rules to change and the odds were not in your favor. You didnt lead.

do whatever your heart says

WTF?

In my opinion; If she was dtf me, and really wanted to f8ck me, she would've not made an appointment with her girlfriends on sushi night with me, and she would've waited for me to act on picking up the food and be like ''we do whatever you want''. Thats what my gut feeling says after all my experience... She just tagged me along like some of u said.

The only thing youve said that makes sense.

So what are you asking for? You ask for opinion and when I give you honest feedback you get all p!ssy. You need to work on your frame. Come on dude. Youve been on here for 7.5 YEARS. You know better than this.

 

[EyeBRollin]

This is a shame. Pick a different target.

Stop trying to date your coworkers.

This is even more egregious considering you are her boss. Cease and desist.

 

[Romanemp22]

There seems to be no attraction for you on her part. You are just a "friend" and a "boss".

No attraction = nothing is going to happen. You cannot manufacture attraction. Its either there or it isnt.

I went on a first drinks date last night. A chick that I was messaging on FB. Within 30 seconds I screened her out because I didnt want to fvck her. I stayed on the date long enough to drink a couple of beers and called it a night. She was messaging me before I even got home, saying how she just wanted to get in my truck with me. It would have been an easy lay but I just wasnt attracted to her enough. It happens.

Move on.

She wasn't like she was in pictures? It happened to me few times, girl is a bomb over pics but in person not even half of that. That's one of the reasons I avoid online flings.

 

[TheGambino]

This is a shame. Pick a different target.

Stop trying to date your coworkers.

This is even more egregious considering you are her boss. Cease and desist.

Bro I would’ve ****ed her if she wasn’t my coworker and I started to like her only 2 weeks ago when she gotten back talking to her ex and him coming to her home to say sorry to her dad. That’s when I realized I wanted to **** her so badly. I had other options I liked more. Now I want to Fock her after missing my chance.

 

[Romanemp22]

Classguy, you sound fvcking stupid right now. I’m not a idiot I ****ed over 200 women in my life had so many flings and relations. You think I would imagine her flirting with me? Nah... your comment is crap

Its not cool to call someone stupid because he's telling you the truth. You're out here being arogant calling people who want to help you stupid while you were a little b1tch and wasn't a man enough where you should be=girl showing sings of interest and flirting for months.

 

[Glassguy]

She wasn't like she was in pictures? It happened to me few times, girl is a bomb over pics but in person not even half of that. That's one of the reasons I avoid online flings.

She was close. It was a 50/50 chance I was going to be attracted to her in real life, so we grabbed a drink. Ended up she was on the wrong side of the 50/50

 

[Glassguy]

Bro I would’ve ****ed her if she wasn’t my coworker and I started to like her only 2 weeks ago when she gotten back talking to her ex and him coming to her home to say sorry to her dad. That’s when I realized I wanted to **** her so badly. I had other options I liked more. Now I want to Fock her after missing my chance.

Do you think that sounds mature? Does that sound like a man with a lot of options?

Not busting your balls, just stating the facts.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Classguy, you sound fvcking stupid right now. I’m not a idiot I ****ed over 200 women in my life had so many flings and relations. You think I would imagine her flirting with me? Nah... your comment is crap

This makes what happened even worse because the stuff you did wrong was so basic. Like what happened?? How did you do so many basic things wrong?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Bro I would’ve ****ed her if she wasn’t my coworker and I started to like her only 2 weeks ago when she gotten back talking to her ex and him coming to her home to say sorry to her dad. That’s when I realized I wanted to **** her so badly. I had other options I liked more. Now I want to Fock her after missing my chance.

Umm...if I am not mistaken in a previous thread you claimed you really don't have any options because you have been busy with work, gained a bunch if weight and haven't been focused on women.

Now you have tons of options and things just went sideways with this chick?

C'mon bro...it can't be both. Which one was it?

 

[TheGambino]

This makes what happened even worse because the stuff you did wrong was so basic. Like what happened?? How did you do so many basic things wrong?

Bro Wtf did I do wrong? I didn’t act or escalate because she’s my secretary. Only two weeks ago I figured I wanted to fvck her and take that risk for a 100% but then she was going back to her ex. And yes she flirted obv I could’ve been the rebound guy.

 

[TheGambino]

Lets stop this thread, I’m moving on, period. Over it.