nubian-knight
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wayword said:
i dont think so but your post has got me pretty worried
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
made a girl *** no orgasm?
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i dont think so but your post has got me pretty worried
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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You made her squirt. I should know, I'm an expert!
I've studied Steve P, David Shade, Stephane and any other sex guru out there that I could come across.
I started dating my girl a few months ago and I taught her to squirt. She had never had a squirting orgasm before in her life. But once she learned to squirt she does it a lot of other times too (not just when I'm trying to make her squirt). She can now squirt during sex, or during oral (be careful!).
Listen man, the first time I made her squirt she didn't have an orgasm either. She and I had this big debate about whether a squirting orgasm was an actual orgasm.
What I figured out is that squirting is a release. But just because a release occurs that doesn't mean that the sexual act is necessarily over. For instance I can get her to squirt relatively easy now (within 2 minutes) but if I KEEP GOING past the initial release the orgasm builds in intensity.
Since her first time squirting, I've gradually increased the intensity. Now it's to the point that I can make her squirt up to 10 times within 20 minutes. She said it was hands down the most intense ORGASMS she has ever felt and absolutely the best feeling she has ever had in her life.
(BTW, she isn't the first woman to give me that compliment
)
A really good book on the subject that I highly recommend is Secrets of Sensual Lovemaking by Tommy Leonardi.
I've studied Steve P, David Shade, Stephane and any other sex guru out there that I could come across.
I started dating my girl a few months ago and I taught her to squirt. She had never had a squirting orgasm before in her life. But once she learned to squirt she does it a lot of other times too (not just when I'm trying to make her squirt). She can now squirt during sex, or during oral (be careful!).
Listen man, the first time I made her squirt she didn't have an orgasm either. She and I had this big debate about whether a squirting orgasm was an actual orgasm.
What I figured out is that squirting is a release. But just because a release occurs that doesn't mean that the sexual act is necessarily over. For instance I can get her to squirt relatively easy now (within 2 minutes) but if I KEEP GOING past the initial release the orgasm builds in intensity.
Since her first time squirting, I've gradually increased the intensity. Now it's to the point that I can make her squirt up to 10 times within 20 minutes. She said it was hands down the most intense ORGASMS she has ever felt and absolutely the best feeling she has ever had in her life.
(BTW, she isn't the first woman to give me that compliment
)A really good book on the subject that I highly recommend is Secrets of Sensual Lovemaking by Tommy Leonardi.
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LOL! Don't listen to that crapnubian-knight said:
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you're lucky you didn't have to sleep in that bed with the chick all night.
I had a girl frickin spring a leak on me like that when I was in college and it was in my bed. We both were hammered, and I started sobering up like three or four hours into the night. We were both starting to pass out around like 4 a.m. and I wasn't really drunk anymore, so I just laid awake all night worrying that I was laying in pi$$.
She left the next day and I sprinted half-naked into my shower the second she walked out the door. When I was done, I threw all my sheets away. I even thought about burning my mattress.
I had a girl frickin spring a leak on me like that when I was in college and it was in my bed. We both were hammered, and I started sobering up like three or four hours into the night. We were both starting to pass out around like 4 a.m. and I wasn't really drunk anymore, so I just laid awake all night worrying that I was laying in pi$$.
She left the next day and I sprinted half-naked into my shower the second she walked out the door. When I was done, I threw all my sheets away. I even thought about burning my mattress.
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I had this happen twice. I just started dating this 18 year old who hadn't had sex in 2 years, it was like a big gush of water all over me (she was on top), it happened when she orgasmed, it was the best feeling in the world at the time on my ****, until it was all over my belly. Then it was just gross but I'd put up with it again for the feeling on both sides.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.