nubian-knight
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wayword said:
i dont think so but your post has got me pretty worried
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
made a girl *** no orgasm?
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i dont think so but your post has got me pretty worried
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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You made her squirt. I should know, I'm an expert!
I've studied Steve P, David Shade, Stephane and any other sex guru out there that I could come across.
I started dating my girl a few months ago and I taught her to squirt. She had never had a squirting orgasm before in her life. But once she learned to squirt she does it a lot of other times too (not just when I'm trying to make her squirt). She can now squirt during sex, or during oral (be careful!).
Listen man, the first time I made her squirt she didn't have an orgasm either. She and I had this big debate about whether a squirting orgasm was an actual orgasm.
What I figured out is that squirting is a release. But just because a release occurs that doesn't mean that the sexual act is necessarily over. For instance I can get her to squirt relatively easy now (within 2 minutes) but if I KEEP GOING past the initial release the orgasm builds in intensity.
Since her first time squirting, I've gradually increased the intensity. Now it's to the point that I can make her squirt up to 10 times within 20 minutes. She said it was hands down the most intense ORGASMS she has ever felt and absolutely the best feeling she has ever had in her life.
(BTW, she isn't the first woman to give me that compliment
)
A really good book on the subject that I highly recommend is Secrets of Sensual Lovemaking by Tommy Leonardi.
I've studied Steve P, David Shade, Stephane and any other sex guru out there that I could come across.
I started dating my girl a few months ago and I taught her to squirt. She had never had a squirting orgasm before in her life. But once she learned to squirt she does it a lot of other times too (not just when I'm trying to make her squirt). She can now squirt during sex, or during oral (be careful!).
Listen man, the first time I made her squirt she didn't have an orgasm either. She and I had this big debate about whether a squirting orgasm was an actual orgasm.
What I figured out is that squirting is a release. But just because a release occurs that doesn't mean that the sexual act is necessarily over. For instance I can get her to squirt relatively easy now (within 2 minutes) but if I KEEP GOING past the initial release the orgasm builds in intensity.
Since her first time squirting, I've gradually increased the intensity. Now it's to the point that I can make her squirt up to 10 times within 20 minutes. She said it was hands down the most intense ORGASMS she has ever felt and absolutely the best feeling she has ever had in her life.
(BTW, she isn't the first woman to give me that compliment
)A really good book on the subject that I highly recommend is Secrets of Sensual Lovemaking by Tommy Leonardi.
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LOL! Don't listen to that crapnubian-knight said:
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you're lucky you didn't have to sleep in that bed with the chick all night.
I had a girl frickin spring a leak on me like that when I was in college and it was in my bed. We both were hammered, and I started sobering up like three or four hours into the night. We were both starting to pass out around like 4 a.m. and I wasn't really drunk anymore, so I just laid awake all night worrying that I was laying in pi$$.
She left the next day and I sprinted half-naked into my shower the second she walked out the door. When I was done, I threw all my sheets away. I even thought about burning my mattress.
I had a girl frickin spring a leak on me like that when I was in college and it was in my bed. We both were hammered, and I started sobering up like three or four hours into the night. We were both starting to pass out around like 4 a.m. and I wasn't really drunk anymore, so I just laid awake all night worrying that I was laying in pi$$.
She left the next day and I sprinted half-naked into my shower the second she walked out the door. When I was done, I threw all my sheets away. I even thought about burning my mattress.
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I had this happen twice. I just started dating this 18 year old who hadn't had sex in 2 years, it was like a big gush of water all over me (she was on top), it happened when she orgasmed, it was the best feeling in the world at the time on my ****, until it was all over my belly. Then it was just gross but I'd put up with it again for the feeling on both sides.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.