nubian-knight
Don Juan
wayword said:
i dont think so but your post has got me pretty worried
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
made a girl *** no orgasm?
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i dont think so but your post has got me pretty worried
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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You made her squirt. I should know, I'm an expert!
I've studied Steve P, David Shade, Stephane and any other sex guru out there that I could come across.
I started dating my girl a few months ago and I taught her to squirt. She had never had a squirting orgasm before in her life. But once she learned to squirt she does it a lot of other times too (not just when I'm trying to make her squirt). She can now squirt during sex, or during oral (be careful!).
Listen man, the first time I made her squirt she didn't have an orgasm either. She and I had this big debate about whether a squirting orgasm was an actual orgasm.
What I figured out is that squirting is a release. But just because a release occurs that doesn't mean that the sexual act is necessarily over. For instance I can get her to squirt relatively easy now (within 2 minutes) but if I KEEP GOING past the initial release the orgasm builds in intensity.
Since her first time squirting, I've gradually increased the intensity. Now it's to the point that I can make her squirt up to 10 times within 20 minutes. She said it was hands down the most intense ORGASMS she has ever felt and absolutely the best feeling she has ever had in her life.
(BTW, she isn't the first woman to give me that compliment
)
A really good book on the subject that I highly recommend is Secrets of Sensual Lovemaking by Tommy Leonardi.
I've studied Steve P, David Shade, Stephane and any other sex guru out there that I could come across.
I started dating my girl a few months ago and I taught her to squirt. She had never had a squirting orgasm before in her life. But once she learned to squirt she does it a lot of other times too (not just when I'm trying to make her squirt). She can now squirt during sex, or during oral (be careful!).
Listen man, the first time I made her squirt she didn't have an orgasm either. She and I had this big debate about whether a squirting orgasm was an actual orgasm.
What I figured out is that squirting is a release. But just because a release occurs that doesn't mean that the sexual act is necessarily over. For instance I can get her to squirt relatively easy now (within 2 minutes) but if I KEEP GOING past the initial release the orgasm builds in intensity.
Since her first time squirting, I've gradually increased the intensity. Now it's to the point that I can make her squirt up to 10 times within 20 minutes. She said it was hands down the most intense ORGASMS she has ever felt and absolutely the best feeling she has ever had in her life.
(BTW, she isn't the first woman to give me that compliment
)A really good book on the subject that I highly recommend is Secrets of Sensual Lovemaking by Tommy Leonardi.
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LOL! Don't listen to that crapnubian-knight said:
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you're lucky you didn't have to sleep in that bed with the chick all night.
I had a girl frickin spring a leak on me like that when I was in college and it was in my bed. We both were hammered, and I started sobering up like three or four hours into the night. We were both starting to pass out around like 4 a.m. and I wasn't really drunk anymore, so I just laid awake all night worrying that I was laying in pi$$.
She left the next day and I sprinted half-naked into my shower the second she walked out the door. When I was done, I threw all my sheets away. I even thought about burning my mattress.
I had a girl frickin spring a leak on me like that when I was in college and it was in my bed. We both were hammered, and I started sobering up like three or four hours into the night. We were both starting to pass out around like 4 a.m. and I wasn't really drunk anymore, so I just laid awake all night worrying that I was laying in pi$$.
She left the next day and I sprinted half-naked into my shower the second she walked out the door. When I was done, I threw all my sheets away. I even thought about burning my mattress.
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I had this happen twice. I just started dating this 18 year old who hadn't had sex in 2 years, it was like a big gush of water all over me (she was on top), it happened when she orgasmed, it was the best feeling in the world at the time on my ****, until it was all over my belly. Then it was just gross but I'd put up with it again for the feeling on both sides.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.