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Master Don Juan
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Confidence seals the deal in person, yet looks gets your foot in the door.Bullsh1t!!!
What really matters is "confidence"![]()
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Confidence seals the deal in person, yet looks gets your foot in the door.Bullsh1t!!!
What really matters is "confidence"![]()
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
And even then it has nothing to do with what the girl thinks of you. Having confidence = you making the move. You could be 6ft+, handsome and never make eye contact and mumble your words. You just need to be confident enough to make the move.Confidence seals the deal in person, yet looks gets your foot in the door.![]()
Some of you fellas you think I'm extreme when I tell men to get to the gym, build muscle, diet down to 10% bf, get their facial proportions in order, and style correctly to get women fawning over you?
"Attraction game" is not necessary when your physicality is on point.
Just remember this: No matter how great you look, you will not attract every female, but the ones you do attract will be child's play.
^This is it right here. Summarized simply & perfectly.Confidence seals the deal in person, yet looks gets your foot in the door.![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Upon meet, first 15-30 minutes, pupils dilate, smiling ear to ear, laughing exaggerated, proximity close ... done deal.I agree with you. I believe in the fact that women make up their minds about you within the first few seconds of seeing you and you just have to not say something stupid. What do you think about this?
We're still waiting on the pics of this gym rat so we know what we gotta aim for dudeUnreal. I'm not kidding. I knew it was get more attention, I just couldn't believe how much. I messaged probably 30 women the first night, 20 responded. I took the conversation sexual, they went with it. Half of them wanted to meet the same night. While I refreshed the page more messages came in. Then other women started messaging me first. I couldn't keep up.
Today I signed up at my local gym. I'm getting jacked.
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I've been trying to explain it to many users, but apparently some believes that a confident ugly guy scores more than a shy hot one.Confidence seals the deal in person, yet looks gets your foot in the door.![]()
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Absolutely Claudo. You've had gurus in the dating industry charging thousands of dollars for seminars when what you said above is the case the entire time. Success was considered a numbers game--you knock on enough doors and eventually someone will open it. It was never due to the routines or any of that bull****...if you approach the right woman (the one who had scoped you out prior and wanted you to come talk to her) you can say practically anything, she'll be happy at the fact you just came over. More attention needs to be placed on selecting the right "target" - being a better conversationalist and all that is of course important too. We as people should always be improving ourselves.And even then it has nothing to do with what the girl thinks of you. Having confidence = you making the move. You could be 6ft+, handsome and never make eye contact and mumble your words. You just need to be confident enough to make the move.
When a girl says "Just be confident!" she means "Ask me out if I find you attractive". That's why I think "game" is really all about figuring out how much a girl likes you in order to make the next move and making her familiar with you.
Exactly! Finding the right is the biggest part of getting laid. Companies spend millions just to target the right customers. I'm more likely to buy a new computer if I am looking for a new computer.More attention needs to be placed on selecting the right "target" - being a better conversationalist
To a guy who has both: looks and game, you're outclassed.One of my cousins is probably more hench than anyone here, besides possibly @marmel75 , and he is a complete faggot for the women. So he can go online, and get a girl easily enough, (as he has), she bossed him. He came out with me and a friend, couldn't open a girl, spilled his drink in confusion when we left him for 20 minutes, and started messaging us.
Guys who are impress3d with this sillyness have never lived.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Great job being a catfish (sarcasm).One of the pics I used: https://pics.pof.com/dating/1147/37/90/448cf0dbb-0b48-4251-9a07-cde0ef1f401d.jpg
That physique is not the most appealing to women.One of the pics I used: https://pics.pof.com/dating/1147/37/90/448cf0dbb-0b48-4251-9a07-cde0ef1f401d.jpg
And how to become 1 or 2? First photo is hard already. Second seems impossible. What just diet and workout...?That physique is not the most appealing to women.
For those interested:
This is a natural physique that appeals most to women:
https://www.google.com/search?q=fit...AUICigB&biw=1227&bih=946#imgrc=eZQVeQDPo_TO1M:
This is a physique with enhancements that appeals most to women:
https://www.google.com/search?q=fit...AUICigB&biw=1227&bih=946#imgrc=dRT_uY9AcOR0CM:
What would be a more profitable experiment would be if you photo-shopped yourself, in such a way you kept your face, as is, but then attached it to a muscular ripped body or vice-versa (i.e. you keep your body as is, but attach it to another face) and see what type of feedback you would get back.Unreal. I'm not kidding. I knew it was get more attention, I just couldn't believe how much. I messaged probably 30 women the first night, 20 responded. I took the conversation sexual, they went with it. Half of them wanted to meet the same night. While I refreshed the page more messages came in. Then other women started messaging me first. I couldn't keep up.
Today I signed up at my local gym. I'm getting jacked.
/thread
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.