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Master Don Juan
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Confidence seals the deal in person, yet looks gets your foot in the door.Bullsh1t!!!
What really matters is "confidence"![]()
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Confidence seals the deal in person, yet looks gets your foot in the door.Bullsh1t!!!
What really matters is "confidence"![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
And even then it has nothing to do with what the girl thinks of you. Having confidence = you making the move. You could be 6ft+, handsome and never make eye contact and mumble your words. You just need to be confident enough to make the move.Confidence seals the deal in person, yet looks gets your foot in the door.![]()
Some of you fellas you think I'm extreme when I tell men to get to the gym, build muscle, diet down to 10% bf, get their facial proportions in order, and style correctly to get women fawning over you?
"Attraction game" is not necessary when your physicality is on point.
Just remember this: No matter how great you look, you will not attract every female, but the ones you do attract will be child's play.
^This is it right here. Summarized simply & perfectly.Confidence seals the deal in person, yet looks gets your foot in the door.![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Upon meet, first 15-30 minutes, pupils dilate, smiling ear to ear, laughing exaggerated, proximity close ... done deal.I agree with you. I believe in the fact that women make up their minds about you within the first few seconds of seeing you and you just have to not say something stupid. What do you think about this?
We're still waiting on the pics of this gym rat so we know what we gotta aim for dudeUnreal. I'm not kidding. I knew it was get more attention, I just couldn't believe how much. I messaged probably 30 women the first night, 20 responded. I took the conversation sexual, they went with it. Half of them wanted to meet the same night. While I refreshed the page more messages came in. Then other women started messaging me first. I couldn't keep up.
Today I signed up at my local gym. I'm getting jacked.
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I've been trying to explain it to many users, but apparently some believes that a confident ugly guy scores more than a shy hot one.Confidence seals the deal in person, yet looks gets your foot in the door.![]()
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Absolutely Claudo. You've had gurus in the dating industry charging thousands of dollars for seminars when what you said above is the case the entire time. Success was considered a numbers game--you knock on enough doors and eventually someone will open it. It was never due to the routines or any of that bull****...if you approach the right woman (the one who had scoped you out prior and wanted you to come talk to her) you can say practically anything, she'll be happy at the fact you just came over. More attention needs to be placed on selecting the right "target" - being a better conversationalist and all that is of course important too. We as people should always be improving ourselves.And even then it has nothing to do with what the girl thinks of you. Having confidence = you making the move. You could be 6ft+, handsome and never make eye contact and mumble your words. You just need to be confident enough to make the move.
When a girl says "Just be confident!" she means "Ask me out if I find you attractive". That's why I think "game" is really all about figuring out how much a girl likes you in order to make the next move and making her familiar with you.
Exactly! Finding the right is the biggest part of getting laid. Companies spend millions just to target the right customers. I'm more likely to buy a new computer if I am looking for a new computer.More attention needs to be placed on selecting the right "target" - being a better conversationalist
To a guy who has both: looks and game, you're outclassed.One of my cousins is probably more hench than anyone here, besides possibly @marmel75 , and he is a complete faggot for the women. So he can go online, and get a girl easily enough, (as he has), she bossed him. He came out with me and a friend, couldn't open a girl, spilled his drink in confusion when we left him for 20 minutes, and started messaging us.
Guys who are impress3d with this sillyness have never lived.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Great job being a catfish (sarcasm).One of the pics I used: https://pics.pof.com/dating/1147/37/90/448cf0dbb-0b48-4251-9a07-cde0ef1f401d.jpg
That physique is not the most appealing to women.One of the pics I used: https://pics.pof.com/dating/1147/37/90/448cf0dbb-0b48-4251-9a07-cde0ef1f401d.jpg
And how to become 1 or 2? First photo is hard already. Second seems impossible. What just diet and workout...?That physique is not the most appealing to women.
For those interested:
This is a natural physique that appeals most to women:
https://www.google.com/search?q=fit...AUICigB&biw=1227&bih=946#imgrc=eZQVeQDPo_TO1M:
This is a physique with enhancements that appeals most to women:
https://www.google.com/search?q=fit...AUICigB&biw=1227&bih=946#imgrc=dRT_uY9AcOR0CM:
What would be a more profitable experiment would be if you photo-shopped yourself, in such a way you kept your face, as is, but then attached it to a muscular ripped body or vice-versa (i.e. you keep your body as is, but attach it to another face) and see what type of feedback you would get back.Unreal. I'm not kidding. I knew it was get more attention, I just couldn't believe how much. I messaged probably 30 women the first night, 20 responded. I took the conversation sexual, they went with it. Half of them wanted to meet the same night. While I refreshed the page more messages came in. Then other women started messaging me first. I couldn't keep up.
Today I signed up at my local gym. I'm getting jacked.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.