"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Made a bit of a mistake today

Mr_rogers

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Hey everyone,

Today I went with my dad to his physio therapy appointment like I do every couple days. I'd made up my mind that I'd get the number of the really cute secretary that works for the physio therapist.

Once my dad was settled in, I excused myself and took a minute in the hallway to compose myself. I wasn't completely **** scared, but I was a bit nervous (I figure it's pretty normal to be at least a little excited before asking for a girl's number, so I don't worry about it much). I went back in and started a conversation with her.

It took me less than a minute to lose that nervous feeling and settle right in. I mostly let her talk about herself, asking a few questions here and there to keep the conversation going. I cracked a few jokes and found out some basic information - she's 21, has been working at the physio clinic for three months, yadda yadda, she lives with her boyfriend in a nearby town only a few minutes away from the clinic.

I didn't let the news of her boyfriend phase me and was able to keep things going without slowing down.

By the end of it though, when my dad was ready to go I found myself rushed for time. I'd been enjoying having someone to talk to too much and hadn't left myself enough time to easily get her number. Because I felt pressure, I froze up and left without getting her number.

My question is - is there still a good chance that I can get her number this coming Friday? I figure it's a bit too early for her to have Friend-Zoned me since we've only just started talking, but it can never hurt to have input from one's fellow DJs.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MisterMcGee

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Stop the whole "i made an AFC mistake" you're either an AFC or you aren't. If your a cool guy, you can do AFCish things and they'll simply be 'sincere' 'kind' and whatever.
Regarding this, just chalk it up as something you realize you want to change about yourself. That's it. no need to drag 'afcness' into this
 

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MisterMcGee said:
Stop the whole "i made an AFC mistake" you're either an AFC or you aren't. If your a cool guy, you can do AFCish things and they'll simply be 'sincere' 'kind' and whatever.
Regarding this, just chalk it up as something you realize you want to change about yourself. That's it. no need to drag 'afcness' into this
Awesome. Thanks for the advice. :)
 
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