"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Macking it to chicks in class

mahon83050

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Hey all I am a grad student and my one class has 4 attractive chicks in it. I am one of the few guys (It is Library school after all) in the class and easily the best looking. I have managed to initiate conversations with all four of them on different occasions. I know atleast one is not interested, but their might be hope with the other three (hard to tell)

Here is my slight worry or dilemma. Obviously the guy has to be the initiator (I know that) and aggressive if he wants to get with one of these chicks. Chatting up with these chicks before class or on class break is one thing, but my problem lies after class is over. The class only meets once a week. In my belief, If I try and follow these chicks or leach on to them after class every week, I will come across as desperate. However, if I don't try and catch up with them after class, I will come across as too indifferent or uninterested. Anyone else ever think of this? Is their a solution to my problem or am I just plain old thinking too much as usual.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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initiate a get together when you are in class with them. *good looking* lol
 

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In "The Game," Style said that out of all the women he layed as a pua, a librarian gave him the best sex. I like smart girls, too.

I would say approach the one you like least, preferably within earshot of the one you like the most. Ask her to lunch or to study together, something that is *almost* certainly not a date. Then go and have fun, but don't treat it as a date, except maybe to flirt. She will probably tell the girl you like all about you, but even if not, the girl you like most will be jealous. By doing this, you demonstrate value and social proof.
 

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Uh, you don't have to follow the girl, nor do you have to "create conversations" with a girl. Say a couple things here and there, body/eye language speaks the rest - the most important thing you should think about is "getting her number."
 

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I'm also in a class with an HB once a week. Thursday I chatted her up for most of the class and did some light kino. I talked with her on the way out of class as she walked to her dorm. I said, "We should hang out some time," she agreed, I said, "Lemme get your phone number," and handed her my phone.

After going to a concert last night, I made out with her when I dropped her off at her dorm. What's that? 5 days?

You're making it a bigger deal than it really is. :p
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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