"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Macking it to chicks in class

mahon83050

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Hey all I am a grad student and my one class has 4 attractive chicks in it. I am one of the few guys (It is Library school after all) in the class and easily the best looking. I have managed to initiate conversations with all four of them on different occasions. I know atleast one is not interested, but their might be hope with the other three (hard to tell)

Here is my slight worry or dilemma. Obviously the guy has to be the initiator (I know that) and aggressive if he wants to get with one of these chicks. Chatting up with these chicks before class or on class break is one thing, but my problem lies after class is over. The class only meets once a week. In my belief, If I try and follow these chicks or leach on to them after class every week, I will come across as desperate. However, if I don't try and catch up with them after class, I will come across as too indifferent or uninterested. Anyone else ever think of this? Is their a solution to my problem or am I just plain old thinking too much as usual.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hurrican

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initiate a get together when you are in class with them. *good looking* lol
 

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In "The Game," Style said that out of all the women he layed as a pua, a librarian gave him the best sex. I like smart girls, too.

I would say approach the one you like least, preferably within earshot of the one you like the most. Ask her to lunch or to study together, something that is *almost* certainly not a date. Then go and have fun, but don't treat it as a date, except maybe to flirt. She will probably tell the girl you like all about you, but even if not, the girl you like most will be jealous. By doing this, you demonstrate value and social proof.
 

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Uh, you don't have to follow the girl, nor do you have to "create conversations" with a girl. Say a couple things here and there, body/eye language speaks the rest - the most important thing you should think about is "getting her number."
 

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I'm also in a class with an HB once a week. Thursday I chatted her up for most of the class and did some light kino. I talked with her on the way out of class as she walked to her dorm. I said, "We should hang out some time," she agreed, I said, "Lemme get your phone number," and handed her my phone.

After going to a concert last night, I made out with her when I dropped her off at her dorm. What's that? 5 days?

You're making it a bigger deal than it really is. :p
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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