"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lucky Me :)

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I've been here for less than 2 months and already hava story to tell. I think I've read pretty much every article in here and lots of forums.

I got a biiiig crush on this girl in my bio class from the 1st moment I saw her at the beginning of the semester. Back then I was a total fool and didn't know anything about them. I wanted to ask her out and tell her my feelings, but didn't have the balls (thanks god, I would've screwed up 100% ).

Since she was my special, I decided to get some practice 1st. Went on 2 dates with 2 different girls. First one seemed to like me, the second one didnt, but I already knew that it was just experience. After about 2 weeks I asked my special bio girl out and she agreed. Success!!!

After the 1st date she began kino me casually. I threw attention/ignoring tactics. Then we had about 5 or 6 dates since then. Everything looks smooth, "da magical bond" grows stronder and stronger.

The last date we had was like a week ago, cause both of us have exams right now. So we're sitting at her house, studying for bio exam together. Got tired, watching a movie. She pulls closer to me and holds my hand. I go for a kiss. Another success!!!

Then I was so happy, but still wanted more. I take a piece of chocolate with my lips and try to give it to her. LOL I've never tried it - in movies it looks so easy, in reality its a different story. The damn piece of chocolate slips out and falls somewhere. I was ready to kill me for my clumsiness and for the whole idea. She's not looking at me romantically anymore and the mood is ruined.

WTF should I do? Well - I decided just to say something and break the silence. "This is what happens when you get too romantic." she laughs. phew. Me:" Lets just find the chocolate" I look on the sofa, then see it between her breasts!!! OMG. I check her out with the eye contact (just like for the kiss). Then go for the sweet sweet chocolate with my mouth


After some effort I managed to get it out and gave it to her as planned

I feel like a happy high someone with a girlfriend. Thank god I found this site.

One things though: It takes so much time and some money. I spent about 140-160 bucks and lots and lots of time. But we were together a lot. 7 dates in 6 weeks. Plus lunch sometimes. Is it normal or I should act somehow different?

Thats so coooool


Why can I have only 8 smilies in my post? You should see me now - I have hundreds of'em.

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If you take love as a crazy gamble
Throw your dice, take your chance
You will see it from a different angle
And you two can join the dance
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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