"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've been here for less than 2 months and already hava story to tell. I think I've read pretty much every article in here and lots of forums.

I got a biiiig crush on this girl in my bio class from the 1st moment I saw her at the beginning of the semester. Back then I was a total fool and didn't know anything about them. I wanted to ask her out and tell her my feelings, but didn't have the balls (thanks god, I would've screwed up 100% ).

Since she was my special, I decided to get some practice 1st. Went on 2 dates with 2 different girls. First one seemed to like me, the second one didnt, but I already knew that it was just experience. After about 2 weeks I asked my special bio girl out and she agreed. Success!!!

After the 1st date she began kino me casually. I threw attention/ignoring tactics. Then we had about 5 or 6 dates since then. Everything looks smooth, "da magical bond" grows stronder and stronger.

The last date we had was like a week ago, cause both of us have exams right now. So we're sitting at her house, studying for bio exam together. Got tired, watching a movie. She pulls closer to me and holds my hand. I go for a kiss. Another success!!!

Then I was so happy, but still wanted more. I take a piece of chocolate with my lips and try to give it to her. LOL I've never tried it - in movies it looks so easy, in reality its a different story. The damn piece of chocolate slips out and falls somewhere. I was ready to kill me for my clumsiness and for the whole idea. She's not looking at me romantically anymore and the mood is ruined.

WTF should I do? Well - I decided just to say something and break the silence. "This is what happens when you get too romantic." she laughs. phew. Me:" Lets just find the chocolate" I look on the sofa, then see it between her breasts!!! OMG. I check her out with the eye contact (just like for the kiss). Then go for the sweet sweet chocolate with my mouth


After some effort I managed to get it out and gave it to her as planned

I feel like a happy high someone with a girlfriend. Thank god I found this site.

One things though: It takes so much time and some money. I spent about 140-160 bucks and lots and lots of time. But we were together a lot. 7 dates in 6 weeks. Plus lunch sometimes. Is it normal or I should act somehow different?

Thats so coooool


Why can I have only 8 smilies in my post? You should see me now - I have hundreds of'em.

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If you take love as a crazy gamble
Throw your dice, take your chance
You will see it from a different angle
And you two can join the dance
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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edited???
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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