"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Belmar2009

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I am a 32 year old male, relatively good looking and can pass for 26-28 years old.

I have noticed most girls under 25 seemed turned off by my age and make some (or their friends) make comments like "your old"! lol

What has been your experience with the girls 25 and under?

Of course, like most guys...I think girls are the hottest 18-24.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Deniska

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Sounds to me you are dealing with immature girls who have a mind of a 15 year old.

Dont tell them your age, avoid the subject all together. Instead, show them that you are fun, outgoing, etc.

Young girls are eager to learn and experiment. So use that to your own advantage.
 

Micheal Moon

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This all depends though. Do you act "old"? Sometimes that makes the difference, even though you look young. I'm the same age as you and have even dated a 20 year old last year. But we got along great because I like having fun, cracking jokes and dress (which is very important to women) with some style. Add these elements together and you become "younger".

Anyways like Deniska said you could be dealing with some immature girls as well. A lot of girls that age don't mind I think, you may be talking to some airheads who arent open minded.

Anyway I dont see the fascination of 19/20 year olds though. I think girls in their early to late twenties are more attractive.
 

jophil28

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Belmar2009 said:
I am a 32 year old male, relatively good looking and can pass for 26-28 years old.

I have noticed most girls under 25 seemed turned off by my age and make some (or their friends) make comments like "your old"! lol

What has been your experience with the girls 25 and under?

Of course, like most guys...I think girls are the hottest 18-24.
Something is wrong here.
I am only guessing here, but perhaps you are talking to them with a competitive mindset in believing that you have to hide your age by 'acting younger' to stay attractive to them. Big mistake - those woman have plenty of young guys to chose from, they do not need an older guy trying to be a counterfeit 25 year old.
I have 20 years on you and I rarely get "your old" tossed at me.
The way to get near young women is to NOT hit on them like their clumsy male peers. Act your age with wit and charm and cool confidence. Send them the message that you regard THEM as a little inexperienced and immature.
 

joedmango

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you cant blame them if they feel it that way, that is a very normal feeling if you offer a sex and love relationship. But for some girls who prefer more action there will be no problem to that, in short you should accept that other girls may somehow be turned off some are not. ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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