"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Belmar2009

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I am a 32 year old male, relatively good looking and can pass for 26-28 years old.

I have noticed most girls under 25 seemed turned off by my age and make some (or their friends) make comments like "your old"! lol

What has been your experience with the girls 25 and under?

Of course, like most guys...I think girls are the hottest 18-24.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Deniska

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Sounds to me you are dealing with immature girls who have a mind of a 15 year old.

Dont tell them your age, avoid the subject all together. Instead, show them that you are fun, outgoing, etc.

Young girls are eager to learn and experiment. So use that to your own advantage.
 

Micheal Moon

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This all depends though. Do you act "old"? Sometimes that makes the difference, even though you look young. I'm the same age as you and have even dated a 20 year old last year. But we got along great because I like having fun, cracking jokes and dress (which is very important to women) with some style. Add these elements together and you become "younger".

Anyways like Deniska said you could be dealing with some immature girls as well. A lot of girls that age don't mind I think, you may be talking to some airheads who arent open minded.

Anyway I dont see the fascination of 19/20 year olds though. I think girls in their early to late twenties are more attractive.
 

jophil28

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Belmar2009 said:
I am a 32 year old male, relatively good looking and can pass for 26-28 years old.

I have noticed most girls under 25 seemed turned off by my age and make some (or their friends) make comments like "your old"! lol

What has been your experience with the girls 25 and under?

Of course, like most guys...I think girls are the hottest 18-24.
Something is wrong here.
I am only guessing here, but perhaps you are talking to them with a competitive mindset in believing that you have to hide your age by 'acting younger' to stay attractive to them. Big mistake - those woman have plenty of young guys to chose from, they do not need an older guy trying to be a counterfeit 25 year old.
I have 20 years on you and I rarely get "your old" tossed at me.
The way to get near young women is to NOT hit on them like their clumsy male peers. Act your age with wit and charm and cool confidence. Send them the message that you regard THEM as a little inexperienced and immature.
 

joedmango

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you cant blame them if they feel it that way, that is a very normal feeling if you offer a sex and love relationship. But for some girls who prefer more action there will be no problem to that, in short you should accept that other girls may somehow be turned off some are not. ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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