"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Belmar2009

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I am a 32 year old male, relatively good looking and can pass for 26-28 years old.

I have noticed most girls under 25 seemed turned off by my age and make some (or their friends) make comments like "your old"! lol

What has been your experience with the girls 25 and under?

Of course, like most guys...I think girls are the hottest 18-24.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sounds to me you are dealing with immature girls who have a mind of a 15 year old.

Dont tell them your age, avoid the subject all together. Instead, show them that you are fun, outgoing, etc.

Young girls are eager to learn and experiment. So use that to your own advantage.
 

Micheal Moon

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This all depends though. Do you act "old"? Sometimes that makes the difference, even though you look young. I'm the same age as you and have even dated a 20 year old last year. But we got along great because I like having fun, cracking jokes and dress (which is very important to women) with some style. Add these elements together and you become "younger".

Anyways like Deniska said you could be dealing with some immature girls as well. A lot of girls that age don't mind I think, you may be talking to some airheads who arent open minded.

Anyway I dont see the fascination of 19/20 year olds though. I think girls in their early to late twenties are more attractive.
 

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Belmar2009 said:
I am a 32 year old male, relatively good looking and can pass for 26-28 years old.

I have noticed most girls under 25 seemed turned off by my age and make some (or their friends) make comments like "your old"! lol

What has been your experience with the girls 25 and under?

Of course, like most guys...I think girls are the hottest 18-24.
Something is wrong here.
I am only guessing here, but perhaps you are talking to them with a competitive mindset in believing that you have to hide your age by 'acting younger' to stay attractive to them. Big mistake - those woman have plenty of young guys to chose from, they do not need an older guy trying to be a counterfeit 25 year old.
I have 20 years on you and I rarely get "your old" tossed at me.
The way to get near young women is to NOT hit on them like their clumsy male peers. Act your age with wit and charm and cool confidence. Send them the message that you regard THEM as a little inexperienced and immature.
 

joedmango

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you cant blame them if they feel it that way, that is a very normal feeling if you offer a sex and love relationship. But for some girls who prefer more action there will be no problem to that, in short you should accept that other girls may somehow be turned off some are not. ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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