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luau food?

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we are having a luau (wedding reception) in two weeks and i am still trying to decide on what food to have .
any suggestions??
 

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Shark steaks. Sushi ( sashimi and nigori ). Most importantly top shelf liquor!

Have some good quality beer as well, Sam Adams, Amberbock . . .


It'll be appreciated more than the food.


Oh, my invite must be on the way to my mailbox hhmmm . . .
 

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i look at some of their recipes and i wonder what our folks would actually be willing to try. most of the websites online say sweet potatoes is one of their best side dishes, and as much as i dig them, i know his family is from so far up north, im not sure they would touch them.

are there any of these things that anyone has ever really tried?
has anyone been to a luau? neither of us has.
 

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Do you have your coconut shell bikini top yet?
thank you for the help.
we got a few for a hula dance contest. winner gets a flip flop picture frame.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Shark steaks. Sushi ( sashimi and nigori ). Most importantly top shelf liquor!

Have some good quality beer as well, Sam Adams, Amberbock . . .


It'll be appreciated more than the food.


Oh, my invite must be on the way to my mailbox hhmmm . . .
eww shark is so bitter.
the church has this little rule about no alcohol, so we have to wait until we get back to the hotel to have any beer haha

i didnt know you would be wanting to go....
 

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penkitten said:
eww shark is so bitter.
the church has this little rule about no alcohol, so we have to wait until we get back to the hotel to have any beer haha

i didnt know you would be wanting to go....

The waining nuptuals make my heart blossom with joy.

But no booze? My regards to both of you.

you could have PB & J sammiches if no sushi. . .
 

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salmon and caviar
 
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